Tenants

Renting a home as a couple: How to find the right place together

Moving in together is one of the biggest milestones in a relationship. It is exciting, a bit nerve wracking, and sometimes full of compromise. Suddenly, two people with different habits and needs have to share space, furniture, and finances. But with a bit of planning and the right preparation, the move can be both fun and harmonious.

Talk before you start looking

Many couples begin searching for an apartment before they’ve even discussed what they actually want. Do you want to live in the city center or further out? How much space do you need? And how much should the rent be? 

A lot of couples only realize after moving in that they had completely different ideas about their ideal home. Talking openly from the start, and writing down what’s most important to each of you can save both time and frustration later on. 

Choose a location that works for both of you

For couples, proximity to work is key, for others, being close to friends or nature matters more. Try to find a balance that fits your daily routines. A neighbourhood with good transport connections, nearby grocery stores and gyms, or walking distance to your favorite café can make a big difference in everyday life. 

Pick a home that matches your lifestyles 

There’s no single “right” way to live together. An apartment in the city center suits couples who enjoy energy, convenience, and plenty of restaurants. A townhouse or a home with a garden might be perfect for those who want more space, a calmer environment, or maybe dream of getting a dog. If you’re moving in together for the first time, a short-term rental can be a good option, it gives you the chance to try living together without a long-term commitment. 

Talk about finances early 

Money is often the biggest source of stress when couples move in together. That’s why it’s important to agree on how you’ll split the rent and other expenses before moving day. Will you divide everything equally, or based on income? 

Creating a shared budget for housing costs, groceries, electricity, and internet can help prevent misunderstandings. What matters the most is not how you split the costs, but that both of you feel the arrangement is fair. 

Create a home that feels shared

Once the keys are in your hands, the fun part begins, turning the place into a home. Moving in together usually means combining two lives, two styles, and two ways of living. Mix your furniture and find a shared interior style that feels like “us”.

It’s not about one person giving up their taste, it is about creating something new together. A sofa from one of you, some artwork from the other, and maybe something fresh your pick out together. 

No relationship is perfect, and the same goes from living arrangements. It takes time to find routines, compromises, and balance. But with communication, understanding, and flexibility, you’ll get far. In the end, it is not just about finding a place to live, it is about building a home together. 

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